When you’ve tried so many times without success, …



There were times when I felt so miserable and awry, like everything I did was wrong. I felt stuck, embarrassed, and I felt useless. Time passed by quickly without me having done anything significant in my life. But, over time I learned that in life there are things that I need to hold on to, and at the same time, there are things that I need to courageously let go, even if it’s a dream that I’ve been fighting for so long. When I decided that God is my boss and also the co-creator, I felt way more relieved, free, and happy.


Have you ever felt like you’ve tried for so many times but still things don’t go your way? Have you felt like you’re the unluckiest person in the world? Have you felt like you’re stuck in a situation and you really want to get out of it? You are not alone; there are many people out there who feel the same way, too.


In my line of work, many people come to me with this kind of situation. And I find that many people struggle, ups and downs, full of turmoil, pain, and tears to reach what they want, and it is so normal. I mean, that’s life…, it wouldn’t be fun without little bumps here and there, right?


Most of the time people need to first struggle to get what they want. And it’s okay; the struggle is what makes you become stronger. But, when we keep trying and trying so hard without success, we start asking ourselves.


What’s wrong with me? Have I done something wrong or is it because of my bad luck? Am I destined to fail?


So, before you start judging yourself, I’d like to share with you these some reasons why everything doesn’t go your way. Perhaps you can think your way over after reading this.


1. Is it really what I need?
Some people think that what they want is what’s best for them. They misunderstand between what they want and what they really need. What you want doesn’t always equal to what you need, darling.


2. You chose the path that doesn’t suit you
Perhaps things still don’t go your way as planned because you chose the path that doesn’t suit you. Wise men said, there are many roads to Rome. If you’ve tried A, B, C, D, E and haven’t succeed, there are still options F to Z. There must be something out there that suits you best.


3. Have you tried enough?
Some people easily complain once their life is a little out of the way. Whereas, you are supposed to keep walking to reach your dreams even it often feels hard. Have you tried enough and give your best to reach your dreams?


4. Perhaps there is something else destined for you
I’m not trying to break your heart, but have you thought about other options? That perhaps there is something better out there destined for you?


5. Perhaps you’re not ready for your dreams to come true
Have you ever asked yourself; am I ready to receive what I’ve been dreaming of all this time? Perhaps it is you who is not ready to have your dreams come true, so that unconsciously you choose the longer path. For example; when you want to get more money, you will need to invest on your time and energy, right? Perhaps, you are the one who is not ready for that kind of effort so that unconsciously you choose longer time to reach your destination.


6. Perhaps you already have it
Sometimes people cannot see what they’ve had when everything is within their grasps. They forget to appreciate what’s really in front of them. They just need a little “shake” to learn the art of gratitude.


7. Karmic effect
There would be no smoke without the fire. The thing that is happening to you is coming from the seed that you have planted in the past. Want to change the future? Start planting good karma now, so that it would create condition and causes to make it easier for you to achieve your dreams. If you never plant, how would you harvest, right?


8. Too uncompromising
You are too busy holding on to your ideas so that you can’t see what you’ve actually got. Perhaps God has given you your own portion, but because it is not according to your desire, you become forceful and you keep on chasing after what you want like crazy. Maybe it’s time for you to switch to becoming the co-pilot and surrender yourself to the Universe. Sometimes you need to just stay back and relax.




So, which one of the reasons above that you can feel relate to? Is your current dream really is the best choice for you? If you think so, then there’s no other way than going after it – try harder and keep on walking even if sometimes it feels too hard for you to handle.


But if you feel that your current dream doesn’t suit your true self and is not worth fighting for, gather your courage and let it go. There is nothing wrong to surrender for the sake of a better future. Find something else that you suits you best. There are always other ways and options in life. You don’t have to stay at a stage or a place forever. You can either stay and fight for it, or move on. Ask your heart, your heart always knows where to go.


Please share this article to the people you love who perhaps feel stuck and need to make a decision, between to keep going or let go and move on. You know who they are. And if you want to share your experience, please leave your comment below.


Thank you for reading and if you need someone to help you find a way out, you can contact me here.


Love and light,







Amelia is a Quantum Healing Practitioner and Intuitive Coach. Her goal is to help you find out who you truly are and why you are here, and therefore, support you to live yourself as the true you – the best version of yourself. She does that by giving you tools that you can immediately apply to improve your life, your relationship, your career, your health and many more than you can possibly dreamed of by incorporating methods such as past life regression, hypnotherapy, chakra wisdom healing, clearing, card reading, life coaching and meditation. Now, she serves through one-on-one therapies and coaching, and also offline and online classes, workshops and retreats. She regularly shares her passion through the newsletters that you can subscribe for free at ameliadevina.com. You can contact Amelia at hello@ameliadevina.com or her Facebook page and her instagram/ twitter @ameliadevina777.

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