They say if someone really loves you, they must accept you just the way you are. All of your strengths and weaknesses. Your past, present, and future. Well, that’s true at one point. But what if, consciously or unconsciously, the person you love is causing you to change for the better? Don’t you want to be the better version of yourself? Don’t you naturally want to give the best for the person you love? Don’t you want to be the best for them?
For example, if you are lazy, hard headed, and don’t like to be told, do you want to keep those traits forever? (I’m actually talking about myself here lol…) Don’t you want to change for your own sake? Especially if by doing that you can make the person you love happy and proud of you.
Sometimes the support from our loved ones can be a much bigger motivation for us to take action.
Especially if the person you love has given the best that they could give to you, doesn’t it make you want to give the best as well? If they are conscious, kind-hearted, polite, and there are so many other qualities of an ideal partner is in them, don’t you want to synchronize yourself by putting some efforts to become an ideal figure, at least ideal in your own opinion?
Besides, they say… true love can make you grow to become a better person. So, if your current partner has nothing good to offer other than causing you to be more drowned into your bad habits, perhaps you can ask yourself now: am I already with the right person? Is this relationship has good impact for me? Or has it made me to hate myself even more?
So, why would you want to be with someone who can’t give you good impact for your life? Why would you want to be with someone who keep influencing you to maintain your bad habits? If they care enough to advice you or be a good example for you, why don’t you try to change for the better?
If you really love them and they also love you sincerely, both of you will help and support one another to be better. Unconditional love does help you to love yourself more.
By loving yourself wholly, you can be more confident, you can be the better version of yourself, and you can be the ideal partner for the person you love.
So, do you still want to be hard headed and insist your partner to accept you “the way you are”? Do you still won’t change even if it can make you become a way better person? Don’t you want to give the best of yourself, become the figure who worth to be with someone as special? And of course at the end, all these changes are done not only for the happiness of your partner and your loved ones, but also for your own sake.
Yes, a partner who loves you sincerely surely will accept you the way you are. But a partner who loves you sincerely will also naturally “ask” you to grow and become the best figure of yourself.
Most likely they will still accept you even if you are lazy and stubborn. But naturally the sincere love you receive will make you love yourself even more. So that naturally too becomes the answer of why there is no reason for you not to grow and blossom more and more each day.
So, have you had complaints from your partner, parents, or friends who demand you to change your habit or attitude? Have you consciously try to change to be a better person because of the love and support of someone you love? Do share with me your story here. I’d love to hear more from you.
Thank you very much for reading. And if you find this article useful, please help me and click share so that your friends can read it too. I wish everyone of us is capable of giving and receiving unconditional love. I wish we can inspire the people we love to become better persons, and most importantly… I wish we can become the best version of ourselves so that in the end, our partner is no less than the beautiful reflection of the qualities we have within. See you soon!
Love and lights,
Amelia is a Quantum Healing Practitioner and Intuitive Coach. Her goal is to help you find out who you truly are and why you are here, and therefore, support you to live yourself as the true you – the best version of yourself. She does that by giving you tools that you can immediately apply to improve your life, your relationship, your career, your health and many more than you can possibly dreamed of by incorporating methods such as past life regression, hypnotherapy, chakra wisdom healing, clearing, card reading, life coaching and meditation. Now, she serves through one-on-one therapies and coaching, and also offline and online classes, workshops and retreats. She regularly shares her passion through the newsletters that you can subscribe for free at ameliadevina.com. You can contact Amelia at firstname.lastname@example.org or her Facebook page and her instagram/ twitter @ameliadevina777.