Can’t tolerate your partner — stay or divorce?



Everyone gets married with the hope of living happily ever after with their partner. But, we all know, every marriage is colored with fights, either a little or a lot. Differences between two persons make us need to tolerate, compromise, and change. But, what if it turns out that the traits and behaviors of our partner really can’t be tolerated anymore? Do we want to stay in the relationship or get a divorce?


Recently I just saw my last year’s status on Facebook, talking about a couple who was on the verge of divorce. After around a dozen years holding on, the husband finally decided that he couldn’t stand his wife stern and abusive behavior anymore. On the other hand, the wife felt like she was treated unfairly; she was very upset and still hoped to be able to keep their marriage. How happy I was knowing that my client (let’s call her Mrs. M) was finally back home and together went on a holiday with her husband, children and also her mother in law. And after a year, today, they still commit to love and take good care of each other.


Such a relief knowing that after Mrs. M had a Quantum Healing session and Intuitive Coaching session with me, and I also talked to her husband, her husband finally decided to accept his wife back to start a new chapter, plus doing some advises as homework from me.


Yes… when your partner has turned into someone less than you can imagine, it is so much easier to get rid of the person and leave his or her behind. It’s such a hard work to change something or someone that’s impossible to be changed, that’s what we thought. But, ask yourself: How far have we tried to help our partner to get out of their problems and change?


True love doesn’t kick out their partner just like that once the partner is no longer behaving as expected. True love tries to understand, comprehend, and care for.


What’s interesting was, the Quantum Healing session showed an image of a hollowed tree as a symbol of the void which Madam M had within her soul. That’s why she looked for ways to fill up the emptiness she felt within; she got mad, jealous, suspicious, and wanted to be in control. And automatically the people around her got away from her, and she herself became more hurt, even more hollowed than before.


Therefore I told her husband, a wife like yours resembled a wife who was suffering from cancer. Let’s think about it: If there is our family member who’s sick from cancer, is it possible for us to say, “How can you get cancer like this? You are hassling people, don’t you know that?! Get out of the house!!!” It’s impossible for us to say that, right? This situation is just similar, the wife is sick. A wife who is sick needs to be cared for.


Only hurt people can hurt other people. It’s impossible for someone to give something that they don’t have it themselves. So, if your partner is angry, perhaps that is a sign that they are hurting inside and is not too happy. As their partner, what can we do to help heal their wounds and make them feel loved and happy?


If only there are more people who can see their partner with the eyes of true love and compassion, we can help lessen the suffering between partners, decrease suffering on children and teenagers, and cut off the rope of suffering to their descendants once and for all.




So, if you feel this article can be useful to many people, please share it to your lover, husband/ wife, ex-es, and friends. I am sure, if they can practice even just a little from what’s been told in this article, they have the chance to live more harmonious and happy lives.


Let’s pray so that every marriage around the world is beautiful and harmonious. Husbands and wives can grow in love, forgiveness and understanding, respect and devotion towards one another. Every child can grow happily in a family who provides unconditional love. And for you who are not yet married, you too can live in this beautiful image of a married life.


Love and light,






PS: If you want to know more about Quantum Healing and Intuitive Coaching session with me, you can contact me here.

PSS: Would love to meet you soon! Love ya! 😉



Amelia is a Quantum Healing Practitioner and Intuitive Coach. Her goal is to help you find out who you truly are and why you are here, and therefore, support you to live yourself as the true you – the best version of yourself. She does that by giving you tools that you can immediately apply to improve your life, your relationship, your career, your health and many more than you can possibly dreamed of by incorporating methods such as past life regression, hypnotherapy, chakra wisdom healing, clearing, card reading, life coaching and meditation. Now, she serves through one-on-one therapies and coaching, and also offline and online classes, workshops and retreats. She regularly shares her passion through the newsletters that you can subscribe for free at ameliadevina.com. You can contact Amelia at hello@ameliadevina.com or her Facebook page and her instagram/ twitter @ameliadevina777.

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