Have you ever fallen in love so deep that even if you know you’re with the wrong person you just can’t let them go? Or maybe you thought you love them, but actually you just fall in love with the idea of being in love? Have you had those signals warning you, but you just don’t want to listen?
Seriously gals and guys, I have fallen for the wrong person at times. I’ve been there done that. But, don’t worry… You don’t have to dwell on it; you just need to find a way to make sense of your situation and, especially for unmarried couples, get out of the relationship when needed. I come across so many cases like this in my line of work. And I find out that most people don’t even realize that they are trapped with the wrong person.
So that’s why here I am sharing with you the nine signals that you can reflect on. Be true to yourself when you’re reading this. I hope I’m not talking about you 🙂
1. You can’t tolerate their bad habits
Pay attention to the things they do starting from your first date. If there are habits that you think you can’t tolerate, e.g.: drinking too much, smoking, swearing, then don’t purse anything further with the person. Unless they are really worth it, you are asking for heartbreak.
2. There are red signals from your family and friends
Yes, I know, they say love is blind, but your family and friends can keep you sane. Perhaps they can see what you don’t want to see. If they give you warnings, maybe you have to consider it. Don’t close your eyes and ears, open them wide.
3. You are not their priority
When you make them your priority but they don’t do the same, consider it a bad signal. Have you experienced those moments when you really need them, but they choose to ignore you and they are not even busy at the time?
4. You create your illusion
When you fantasize your partner to be someone else who treats you better, sweeter and just perfect, remember that it’s an illusion. You create someone who doesn’t even exist and it’s not healthy. Ask yourself: do you really love them? Or do you love this ideal partner that you yourself form in your head?
5. You can’t be yourself around them
You have to be yourself wherever you are; it’s a way to stay true to yourself. Do you need to think it over even before every little conversation? Are they even worth the pretence?
6. Trust your gut feeling
Usually the Universe will give you signals when you’re meeting the wrong person or when your relationship goes astray. You get the vibe and you can feel it. Now, it’s your calling… do you want to leave it there and trust your gut feeling?
7. They don’t introduce you to their family and friends
If you’ve been in a relationship long enough to think that it’s time for them to introduce you to their closed ones, but they haven’t, you have to pay attention. It’s either they are just not ready or they just simply don’t want to.
8. Promise, promise and promise
They keep saying promises without even trying to take any action on them. What’s the good to be in a relationship when your partner doesn’t even value their words?
9. They don’t appreciate you enough
Everyone wants to be treated as equal. If even your partner talks down on you, does not appreciate you and keep comparing you with friends or relatives, who else could you trust and rely on?
So, these are the nine signals that you might be trapped with the wrong person. All you need to do is to have more awareness and accept it if you are actually having problems in your relationship. The signals will naturally appear – acknowledge it, don’t ignore it and find help to sort out of your situation. Being in a bad relationship does not necessarily mean you have to let the other person go, especially if you’re married. If you can fix it, then that’s good! But if you’re not yet in a relationship with the person, you better think twice.
Are there any of these nine signals that you feel you can relate to? Have you been in the wrong relationship before? How do you manage to get out of it? Please share your experience in comment box below . Let us learn from one another.
People often come to me blaming their partner for the failure of their relationship, without even realizing that they have actually got the signals in the first place.
If you recognize the signals, then you can minimize your unnecessary heartbreak. If you need help finding the way to let go of your relationship, fix it, or even just want to talk it all out, you can contact me here.
I wish you and your loved ones are blessed with great communication, commitment and happiness. Thank you for reading and I’ll see you soon.
Love and light,
Amelia is a Quantum Healing Practitioner and Intuitive Coach.Her goal is to help you find out who you truly are and why you are here, and therefore, support you to live yourself as the true you – the best version of yourself. She does that by giving you tools that you can immediately apply to improve your life, your relationship, your career, your health and many more than you can possibly dreamed of by incorporating methods such as past life regression, hypnotherapy, chakra wisdom healing, clearing, card reading, life coaching and meditation. Now, she serves through one-on-one therapies and coaching, and also offline and online classes, workshops and retreats. She regularly shares her passion through the newsletters that you can subscribe for free atameliadevina.com. You can contact Amelia at email@example.com or her Facebook page and her instagram/ twitter @ameliadevina777.