Valentine’s day just passed. Was there something special you did with your loved ones? Did you spend it by giving them presents, flowers, or having a romantic dinner together? This year I, myself, spent Valentine’s day with fellow volunteers from the humanitarian foundation that I work with, discussing about ways to run our missions better this 2016. It was fun and very heartwarming.
During my time being a counselor, I find that the biggest problem most people have is with their relationships. Actually, sharing your love with your dearest ones is a way to increase your spirituality and wisdom. Doesn’t everyone want to be loved? And the best way to receive love is by giving it first.
Here, I am sharing with you eight simple ways to show your love to your loved ones everyday, not only on Valentine’s day. Try them out and maybe you’d be surprised with the result.
1. Post-it notes
If you feel just by saying ‘I LOVE YOU’ is too traditional, you can spice it up by using these little post-it notes to express your love, for example, to let them know what simple things you like from them. The little things matter, and you can put these post-it notes on the fridge or on the mirror all over your house or even in their car.
2. Express it with food
You can cook their favorite food or you can buy them from their favorite restaurant. It’s okay too, as long as you put some effort and thoughts into it, they’ll love it. You can also add little quotes to make them smile and brighten their day. Make an extra effort to deliver it to their office to make them proud in front of their co-workers! 😉
3. Pay attention
There is nothing that will make people feel better than being cared for. You have to pay close attention to important little things they say, so they will know that you love them without even saying it. Remember all the important dates, like birthday, anniversary and dinner appointments!
4. Text them
Too busy to text your loved ones? Well, if you really love someone, you must make time for them. Besides, it’s just a text, it takes only like a minute. Just say something simple but thoughtful like, “Hi babe, have a nice day!”
5. Help them
Help them washing the dishes or washing their car. It may not sound romantic at all, but they’ll appreciate it so much. Or it’s even better if you can romanticize the activity, like flirting with them while helping them wash the dishes and ask questions about their day.
6. Give them present
Presents are not always about shiny and expensive things. You can buy them flowers or books or whatever they’ve been wanting for. You don’t have to wait for special occasion to give them present, but if you feel like they deserve to be spoiled, go for it.
7. Compliment them
Your other half needs to hear that they are worthy. Give them compliments here and there, drop those nice words without sounding too cheesy or too much.
8. Flirt it up
Even if you’ve been dating for years or even if you’ve been married for a decade or so, they still need to know that they are desired. Flirt with them, it spices things up! 😀
That being said, you don’t have to wait until Valentine’s day to spoil your other half. You just need to put two and two together. It’s not important if it’s expensive or not, you just need to know their preference, what they love. It’s better if it’s thoughtful, so you can show them that you pay attention to them.
Which one of the 8 ways that you have done or after reading this you are inspired to do that to your loved ones? Tell me in comment column below.
Most people come to me when their relationship is already so messed up and somewhat broken, so don’t wait until it happen to express your love and make your relationship better. If you have questions about your relationship, not only with your lover but also your relationship with your parents, children or even at work, you can contact me here.
Thank you for reading, hope you are always living a happy life with your loved ones. See you soon!
Love and light,
Amelia is a Quantum Healing Practitioner and Intuitive Coach.Her goal is to help you find out who you truly are and why you are here, and therefore, support you to live yourself as the true you – the best version of yourself. She does that by giving you tools that you can immediately apply to improve your life, your relationship, your career, your health and many more than you can possibly dreamed of by incorporating methods such as past life regression, hypnotherapy, chakra wisdom healing, clearing, card reading, life coaching and meditation. Now, she serves through one-on-one therapies and coaching, and also offline and online classes, workshops and retreats. She regularly shares her passion through the newsletters that you can subscribe for free atameliadevina.com. You can contact Amelia at firstname.lastname@example.org or her Facebook page and her instagram/ twitter @ameliadevina777.